Saturday, May 9, 2009

There Are No Secrets, Only Links...

Has it happened to you yet? You're going about your day when someone makes a remark that surprises you:

"Did you enjoy your trip to Disney with the your grandkids?"

You're not sure how they can know this about you. You hadn't mentioned your trip to them and yet they seem to know all sorts of details about it. Were they spying on you? No. Instead, someone has learned about you through online resources. Nowadays, privacy isn't what it used to be.

It can be as simple as posting a picture on Facebook. Someone in your network makes a comment about it and then the picture is visible to everyone in their network. Before long, your family vacation is known to a whole bunch of people!

The world has changed. Anything about you could be shared online. Is this a bad thing? I think it's mixed bag. Using services like, LinkedIn, a college graduate could network his or her way to a new job. But if that student has pictures on the web of doing a keg stand at a party, then that job offer might disappear.

Think about the image you want to project in cyberspace. Perhaps on this Mother's Day, the best rule to keep in mind is whether you'd be embarrassed to have your mother see any of your online adventures. If so, you may want to be less public in your online life.

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