Are You the Exception or the Rule?

I recently read an article about study that stated that 94% of the respondents say they've worked with "toxic people." This designation covered all sorts of bad workplace behaviors from laziness to anger. Normally I'd provide a link to the study but to get that info, you have to buy a book by the authors of the study. No thanks.

Nevertheless, the study got me to thinking about how we perceive others and ourselves. If almost all of the people surveyed complain about toxic people, there's a good chance that some of those people (doing the complaining) are themselves, toxic. Very often there's a disconnect between stated behavior and actual behavior.

For instance, it's easy to speak out against speeding. You wouldn't want someone driving recklessly near your family. But if you're running late for an event, it's easy to find yourself driving well over the limit. And most smokers don't think of themselves as litterers but when it comes time to get rid of their butt, a lot of them end up on the ground and not in an ashtray.

Perhaps the next time you condemn a behavior in others, it's important to consider if it's something you practice. A society of professional complainers will contribute little to the world, other than noise.