Buttons and Zippers

When it comes to communication, most people fall into two groups: buttons and zippers. Both of them do the same thing but accomplish it in a very different way. The problem is that buttons and zippers each think that their way of fastening (or communicating) is best. After all, you rarely see buttons and zippers in the same area on the same piece of clothing.

Buttons have a very close communication style. They like to talk directly to people.

Zippers believe that communication works best when it's at a distance. They love to send emails rather than talk in person.

Buttons like to talk a lot. If they have a thought, they're going to verbalize it.

Zippers tend to be more internal. They only speak after they've given their words careful consideration.

Buttons write long emails. They want to make sure all the facts are out on the table.

Zippers feel that emails should be direct and to the point. They feel information is on a need to know basis.

These are just some of the differences between buttons and zippers. The problem is that often one group doesn't know that the other exists. For example, a button is surprised when a zipper doesn't act like a button. This causes the two groups to frequently come in conflict with one another.

So are you a button or a zipper?